I was watching the season wrap-up of Anthony Bourdain’s CNN
show Parts Unknown when Tony, that’s
what his friends call him, said something like, “I like to tell stories that
interest me and I try not to repeat myself. And I figure that if the tale interests
me there’s a good chance it will interest you.” That’s a very liberal
paraphrase. In fact, it may bear no resemblance to what he actually said.
With the gist of that premise in mind I realized that I want
to tell stories. In Spanish the word is historias.
It may seem like a minor revelation but it gave me a long needed, seven years
to be exact, understanding of why I do the blog in the first place. It even
provides a little direction going forward. The best of my posts tell stories.
Or the best ones tell the best stories. Something like that.


After Oakland we moved to San Leandro and in San Leandro we
lived in two places. I think. The first
was an apartment that we shared with my mother’s older sister, Fern. My
memories are sketchy but I do recall the sweet aroma some kind of pot roast
that involved cooking sherry that my mother kept in the cupboard. Might have
had a salty taste. Just guessing. I learned to swim in San Leandro when somebody
said, “Jump in. You’ll figure it out.” Since I don’t remember any screams or
thrashing sounds and haven’t been saddled with a lifelong fear of the water I
guess the sink or swim lesson worked.
From the apartment, of which I have a fuzzy two level image,
we moved further east to what I recall as a single family house. With advancing
age, maybe eight as the fifties loomed, my arsenal of memories grows. Among
them is one of the teacher who let me read books of my choosing and at my own pace.
That was probably third grade. Because my reading was several grades ahead of
my class it made a whole lot of sense and her allowing that freedom is one of
my fondest school day images. Good for my self-esteem, too.
In the field behind my house I snuck my first smoke. My buddy and I had a tree with a knot hole
that hid a pack of Fatimas or Spuds quite handily. You’ve got to be seventy to
remember those monikers. Who stole the cigarettes remains a mystery but I know
it wasn’t me since Mom didn’t smoke.
Within walking distance, we didn’t have a car till I was in
my mid-teens, were the barber shop, a café and a movie theater, the Bal. All resided on East 14th Street near the corner of 148th Avenue in
the still surviving commercial hub of our neighborhood. In that barber shop I got my first
haircut that ended with hot shaving cream and a straight razor. I cannot tell
you how grown up I felt. In the café I first had diner fare like hamburger
steak with mashed potatoes, brown gravy, canned peas and sliced white bread. Hot
turkey sandwiches, too.
But mostly I remember the Bal which would have screened its
first movie when we lived there. I don't recall the theater’s grand opening but it had to
have happened about that time. Maybe we watched She Wore a Yellow Ribbon at the Bal. I know we saw it in
first release so it almost has to have been the there. Joanne Dru and the Duke in living color against the backdrop of Monument Valley in 1949.
The Bal’s the most vivid touchstone of
my San Leandro days. Maybe that’s because it the old auditorium is living a second
life as a music venue lo these 65 years later. That it still stands, as does
our old apartment house in Oakland, is somehow touching.